Perceptions and Reactions to Tarot Practice
What do people think about Tarot and Tarot Readers?
Dorothy
7/14/20262 min read
How is Tarot perceived by those around you? More specifically, how do your friends, family, and colleagues respond to your involvement with Tarot? Do they disapprove, think you are strange, expect free readings at every opportunity, or respect your interest in the subject? The answer likely depends on location, cultural background, and social context.
Personal Experiences and Environmental Influences
Personally, I was fortunate to grow up in an environment that encouraged me to follow my own path, provided I acted responsibly and did no harm to others. This freedom allowed me to explore Tarot without unnecessary restriction or judgement.
Reactions to Tarot Collections
Before even discussing Tarot readings, I have to say that I have sometimes been met with incredulity and disbelief about my Tarot deck collection, which I find annoying but on reflection amusing! For instance, a woman once visited my home for coffee and, upon discovering my bookcase was filled with Tarot decks rather than books, appeared genuinely horrified by the quantity. Curiously, she seemed to feel it would have been entirely acceptable if the shelves held books instead.
Responses to Tarot Readings
In terms of giving Tarot readings, I have never faced outright hostility, which may reflect the open-minded company I keep and the settings in which I read. Venues such as holistic fairs and New Age shops tend to attract people who are less likely to view Tarot negatively. I have occasionally had clients express doubt or claim disbelief just before a reading, a response I interpret as bravado or embarrassment. Interestingly, they almost always settle in, listen attentively, and are pleased to pay for the reading, suggesting a degree of openness despite their first reservations.
Tarot in Social Settings
Beyond Tarot-friendly environments, I have provided readings at social gatherings, birthday parties, and charity events. Generally, people are polite; those uninterested simply do not request a reading and, as far as I am aware, have not voiced disapproval of my presence.
Expectations of Free Tarot Readings
One recurring issue that arises when people discover that I am a Tarot reader is the expectation that I will provide them with a reading free of charge. This can be quite uncomfortable, as many individuals are unaware of the significant amount of study and skill needed to interpret the cards accurately. Tarot reading is a discipline that demands dedication and ability, much like any other profession.
If I meet another professional, such as a doctor or a lawyer, at a social event, I will not expect them to offer their services or advice free of charge. It is important to recognise that Tarot reading is also a professional skill, deserving of respect and proper compensation. The expectation of complimentary readings often overlooks the value and effort inherent in the practice.
Support from Friends and Family
Friends and family are mostly supportive of my Tarot practice, to varying degrees. Understandably only those closest to me fully understand what Tarot represents in my life and appreciate it’s significance.
Ultimately, I believe that people’s reactions to Tarot reflect broader attitudes toward alternative practices and personal exploration.
What do you think? Have you met hostility towards your Tarot practice? I'd love to hear about your experiences.
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